We hear the heart rate at 85 bpm. This is close to what mine is, normal for an adult, but it isn’t right for a seven-week embryo’s, whose heart rate should be double that. We all hope for our children to race ahead of us, dream up and do things we never could; in a sense, these early rapid heart rates signify their readiness to do that, to grow and become someone of their own. But this baby isn’t going to.

What is there of beauty in losing an unborn baby?